The egoic mind is like a dog. Loyal. Protective. Trainable, whether we intend to train it or not. And it carries a very specific kind of canine-like energy. 🐕
The mind comes alive when it senses a problem to solve or a plan to make. It perks up. It wags its tail. It shows up eagerly, excited to help. Sometimes it's so enthusiastic that it jumps all over you, gets underfoot, and makes it hard to move. Other times it simply drops the same thought at your feet, like a stick, and waits for you to throw it.
You throw the stick-thought away.
And the mind brings it back.
Again and again.
No matter how many times you try to ignore it or set it aside, the mind goes back out searching. It will comb through memory, emotion, and old familiar terrain, convinced it has found something important. And then it returns, tail wagging, and drops the slobbery thought right back at your feet. 🤦🏻♀️
Sometimes the mind loves to roll in drama. Just as a dog will roll gleefully in something foul, the mind will immerse itself in stories, conflicts, and emotional residue. There can be satisfaction in it, even though it leaves a mess that needs attention. The mind believes it is engaging or staying informed, but often it is simply caught up. 💩
The mind also takes time to settle. Like a dog circling its bed before lying down, it has rituals. It revisits, rechecks, loops, pauses, sniffs, and adjusts until it finds just the right position. Its process is deliberate, methodical, and quietly endearing (or quite annoying, depending upon your mood). 😑
When I treat my thoughts with the same curiosity and gentle compassion I would offer a beloved pet, (rather than with judgment or control), they start to calm. I don't have to take my thinking too seriously. I can notice when the mind engages in repetitive or unhelpful patterns and simply let those thoughts be.
I allow myself to feel whatever arises—frustration, fatigue, amusement—without needing to change it. There is a drive to engage, to gnaw, to work through problems, and that energy can be noticed without taking it personally. Expecting the mind to be silent all the time is like expecting a dog not to bark; that's not what it was designed to do. 🐶 🧠
When you settle into this loving awareness, there is nothing left to argue with. You no longer need to control so much or wrestle with what is happening.
You can let the mind be a mind.
Loyal. Well meaning. Occasionally disruptive.
But not the Master.